Years ago, my very first coach, Dr. Elaine Millam, had me make a list of the things about my day that I enjoyed and the things that I hated doing.

I often think of the parable about a little fish swimming next to a big fish. "Tell me about the ocean, please," the little fish asked the big fish. The big fish swam on in silence. "Please tell me about the ocean," the little fish begged, "You have been around so long and you know so much!" The big fish swam on in silence.